** THE REAL 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS THAT GIRLS DON'T KNOW!. SO GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS **

HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

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Is the feeling gone already?

Maybe with this picture, you will know what I really mean by now.

Is that just an infatuation? Maybe yes, maybe no. I still don't know. I'm still not sure of that.

A while ago, he asked me again if I could now tell him the truth about my feelings for him.  But I said no.  Then he asked, will I really say it on Christmas? I said, "I don't know." From that conversation, I asked myself, am I really going to confess to him on Christmas? But I don't know if I can handle it. I am afraid of losing him. I am afraid of being rejected. I am afraid of many things.  Then, he said that I should confess my feelings right now because if I would tell it to him on Christmas, I would just cry. From that, I became more scared and really don't know what to do.

My "mommy J" said to me that I still got lots of time before Christmas. I can still think about it. But as days go by, I can feel that my feelings for him is slowly fading. I guess, I just want him to stay as my friend right now. Not as a special someone. 

Some people would think that they prefer people who is NOT MANHID (numb) to the feelings of others. But for me, I think I want the opposite.  If only he was numb to my feelings, it would not be very difficult to me. I could continue beings friends with him and confess easily on Christmas.

OH MY GOSH. WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING NOWADAYS... :|

Maybe, the feeling is not totally gone YET. But, there will come a time that it will really vanish (I hope so). OH!!!! If I can only turn off the feelings of my hypothalamus.. I mean, heart... for him, then there would be no problem. Everything will be solved. LOL

Is this what you call LOVE?

Hi there I'm here again to share my experience in Oct. 14, 2011.

A while ago, at 7:34am, my "best friend" told me to go to school immediately because he will be waiting for me there.  That time, I was shocked because I just got up from sleep and we were supposed to meet up at 11am. Oh well, I hurried up and take a bath. I did not ate my breakfast so that best friend would not wait any longer.

When I was at school at past 8am, I went to him directly. Then, we ate together in the cafeteria of our school. Oh it's again in Paotsin (his favorite)! After eating, we went to the 4th floor to see if the Dance Room or the Multi-Purpose Room is available for us to practice with our Cha-Cha dance.  But unfortunately, those rooms are occupied already for PE classes. So, we just went to the LRC-Extension (our 2nd library) to think of a place where we can practice.

There, majority of the time was only used for our stories with each other and playing TapTap Revenge in his iPad.  You would really think that it was just a waste of time but for me, it is a good time because I am with him. After a few minutes (less than an hour), I said that we will practice in the walkway of the school in the ground floor if there are no people in there. If there is, we have no choice but to go to my condo and practice in the lobby.

But when he figured out that my parents are not at home, he said that he prefer to go to my condo instead. When we got there at past 10am, he asked if we could practice inside the unit. But I insisted that we should practice in the lobby because my unit is not big and I did not clean it yet. It was so difficult to convince him, but I was able to do that.

At the lobby, we practiced our dance steps and just stopped when we got it already.  Then, while resting, a cute little girl went to us and asked if what are we to each other. The best friend said, "we're best friends." That girl said, "really? You do not look like that." Then he answered, "then what do you think are we?" The girl said, "boyfriend." When that girl said that, I smiled. That girl is like a mature one to say that. Well, who would have thought that we're not in a relationship, if we are happily together that time?

That cute little girl played in his iPad and enjoyed being with best friend. That times, I saw the aura of him that he'll gonna me a good father someday. I really thought of the future that his children and his wife would be really lucky for having such a loving father and husband.

After playing, I saw that he was so tired that he lie on the chair in our lobby. Because of that, I felt pity for him that is why I allowed him to go to my unit.  Since our condo is studio-type, we only have a sofa-bed and we sat there and had some chat first. While chatting, I felt that  want to lie in the bed, so I did that. Surprisingly, he also lie in the bed beside me and put his head in my shoulders. That time, he was still talking but I cannot look at him because his face is so close that if I will look, it will be so awkward.

But because I was not looking, he opted to go on top of me so that I would definitely look at him. That time, his face is really close to my face. Like forehead to forehead? Then he held my hands and hugged me. I was so afraid that time because his lips is so close to mine. But I think I was over thinking. He would not do something like that, I know. That actions continued until he went home already.

This day is so exciting that caused me to be very lively and happy. But I think, those actions were just normal to him. If my imagination is correct, I think he's really like that to girls when he goes to their house. Oh right! Maybe he's like that. I'll just think f that. haha, I'm so bad. I want to laugh at myself. LOL :)))

I'm so "KILIG"!!! :">

Hello! I'm here again for my KILIG experience this week.

Last Tuesday, Oct. 11, 2011, we had a PE class, which our topic is about Cha-cha. It is a type of ballroom dance that eventually needs a partner.  That time, our PE professor said to us to look for a partner.... At that time, I was a little bit sad because I might not have a partner. I'm not looking for someone that time, and no one is asking me.  Then suddenly, my blockmate, Julie, hugged me and called "HIM" (it's "best friend")..

Best friend approached us immediately and said, Are we partners? (partner tayo?) -- that time, he was also asking for a high five.  I was stunned for a couple of seconds, then responded to his high five. Then that means, we became partners for that dance.

At first, I thought that he does not know how to dance because he hardly follows in our group dance presentations. But that time, it was like he is more knowledgeable than me. Oh gosh! That's really crazy. But of course, the most KILIG part is that while we are dancing, we smile, laugh, talk, and look at each other. That time was my happiest moment with him.  Also, there is a bonus -- we are always holding each other's hand. Gosh! If only I could stop the time, I would! I want us to be like that all the time. The feeling was so romantic that I would always smile when I think of it.

Oh my best friend, how I wish I could really say to you my feelings right now. But I guess, it is not yet the right time. I will wait for December 25, 2011 to come. Then, you will know that I like you! :)

Month of October

Oh gosh, this is it! This is my favorite month since Grade 6.  I don't know why, but I guess because this month is the birthday of my 3 close friends.. haha. I remembered before when I pretended to be another person, I also made a new birthday, which is October 26. See? This really is the month that I like. LOL

Oh whatever. I don't know what to say already. Oh well. Have a great day! :)